Perhaps all moms and dads will be able to relate about the topics to be shared next. Especially to novice mothers with some experience during pregnancy. I also miss our parents, as well as young brother and sister’s.
Recently, there has been a very hot topic on the Internet. Why do you want to have children and raise children? To build a family? Or to raise kids and take care of you in old age? The blogger said he read in a book, “It’s for giving and appreciating, don’t ask for the child’s perfection, no need to fight my face, let me take care of it, as long as having a healthy child’s body is enough. And give me a chance to live with him.” So, people have comments about the blogger. Let’s take a look!
Netizen 1: I can only understand the truth when I become a mother. Raising children is for giving and appreciating. The child does not need to be required to be perfect. Or I also have to fight my face. What matters is a healthy child’s physique until they grow up and help me when I’m older, and It’s enough to live in the world and give me a chance to be with him.
Netizen 2: In the old days, you could only get pregnant and have children when you were married. But when you become a poor mother and you don’t accept that you have sacrificed too much. Later, raising children on your own will gradually change your mind. The page of the book you say is the same. So, I think motherly love is great and magical.
Netizen 3: Just now, Xiao Bao, who was asleep, was still calling his mother, I feel so happy
Netizen 4: Let me accompany my children who call me mother and I am very happy. Like playing a game, upgrading new skills every day makes me happy. Watching my children grow up sensible day by day.
Netizen 5: I used to be an unmarried activist, youth less. I didn’t expect the creature to be like a child to be really that amazing. She makes me feel a happiness I have never felt before. If I didn’t have kids, I would be even sadder.
Netizen 6: To taste the tastes of life, without children, the world would be sad and lifeless. Single freedom is so boring!
Netizen 7: If you ask to have children, be a better parent who will not disappoint your children. Give them a better future. Work hard for them to become a better person. Don’t let them down.
Netizen 8: For the sublimation of life, in order to meet a different self, in order to grow oneself
Netizen 9: My real idea in marriage is that having children with my husband strengthens our marriage and we are more bonded.
Netizen 10: No! Let him grow up happily and freely, and you can only help him now. When you get old you can do nothing. The way to truly love a child is to grow up with him and face difficulties together, teach him to live in the world and find a way of life that suits him, and when we are gone, they can continue to live a beautiful life with this love. This is the true meaning.
Netizen 11: I’m very vulgar. I gave birth for the purpose of spiritual sustenance. When I went home, my mother screamed. This kind of happiness is really great life.
Netizen 12: Not at all vulgar, every mother has her own understanding, but the sense of happiness is the same
Netizen 13: Especially when I wake up every morning, the sound of my child is so satisfying. When I wake up, I see the baby sweet to my heart.
Netizen 14: It’s often gossip, but it’s painful and happy.
This is a part of the published thoughts. It’s beautiful and happy, isn’t it? Someone asks questions next?
Question 1: I personally think it is a selfish performance, because I have not asked the child “Will you come to this world for a while?”.
Question 2: I used to think that having a child is happiness for a family tree, but now I am thinking about whether my child is willing to come to the world for a while? Will my child be willing to experience all the unknown things? Is it because I am too selfish or am I too conformist! The answer is like this~
Netizen 15: Beauty or not depends entirely on how parents treat their children
Netizen 16: So, it is very important for you to give him the three views. Living for yourself is a happy thing. Let him do what he likes. One day his parents will leave, and the good things may also be lost. But this does not mean that without all this, life will be terrible, and he will be unhappy.
Netizen 17: Do you hate your parents? I think that the arrival of a new life is his choice. From birth to old age, he and she can choose. He or she chooses you to be a mother when They see you in the sky and likes it. You should be grateful. You can’t select your parents. Don’t think too much.
Netizen 18: Although there are pains and difficulties, there is also happiness. I am very grateful to my mother for bringing me into this world. The mountains and rivers are so beautiful, the sky and the ocean are so wide… I am willing to come to this world, too. I will try my best to guide my children to retaliate against the world with virtue and enjoy real beauty.
Netizen 19: When you are pregnant, you will know this in the beginning and you can choose between the two. If he doesn’t want to come, then you won’t really get pregnant. Even if she was pregnant, he might run away. So, you when you are pregnant you will know what you really want. Be wise in choosing.
Netizen 20 Why don’t they; Giving you a chance to be born is difficult.
Netizen 21:Think of it as an exercise. You should not blame yourself when it comes to this world. Unless they are very irresponsible. My own father was a very irresponsible man. But I don’t think that’s a reason why they shouldn’t bring you into this world. Even if it is hard, I am optimistic and positive in life.
Netizen 22: This is a paradox. How do you know if it doesn’t exist?
Netizen 23: I just want to continue my offspring, and I don’t have to ask. This is reality. I want to see another little one life that comes from my blood.
Netizen 24: The child chooses the mother first, and then the mother feels the baby.
Netizen 25: If your parents are reliable, loving, and positive, who wouldn’t want to come here for a while?
Netizen 26: I just want to ask you; how do you ask? Where to ask? Who to ask?
Netizen 27: How can he win the championship out of 300 million if he doesn’t want to.
Netizen 28: Under the care of their parents, every child is happy. Love will make them feel worthy.
Netizen 29: Good people can still think like this. I think it is up to the parents to decide if they will let their children come into this world, and the greatest responsibility of parents is to make children feel that the world is nice and not sorry to come here. Now, children. How do you ask if you want to come when you are born?
Netizen 30: Your heart is beautiful, and the world is beautiful.
Netizen 31: It is a question of what comes first the chicken or the egg.
Netizen 32: So, if I drink poison in chicken soup, a lot of people will think. The world is worthless because their parents did not give them enough love. Then, as I experienced it. I will not let children be like me.
Just take a moment and check it out. Maybe someone’s word is what you think and I think. A thousand people have a thousand different experiences. Whatever step I take, it’s because of love not first nor only after. Go with the flow of life thru ups and downs with hard work, communicating with love. I am not here to persuade you to have a baby. If you’re not prepared, we won’t hurt each other. If there is an accident, don’t talk about it. This is the best answer for netizens who are taking responsibility. For every parent who just wants their children to grow up healthy and happy. As we desire our parents to live a healthy and happy rest life.