“The First and Last Chance”

“The First and Last Chance”

When I was young, we had a neighbor named “Tingting”. She always brought us food when he came home from work. She also dresses in stylish and beautiful fashion, which leaves a good impression on our hearts. We look forward to the day when he can come home, it will bring us new things, and bring emotions. When I grow up, I will go home and often care about Tingting’s current situation.

Tingting was married when she was in junior high school. Sometimes I hear neighbors gossiping about Tingting as a family of DINKs. At the time, I didn’t know much but I just knew I didn’t have children. Marriage in the country without having children is always a little gossip. In an instant, it was over ten years. Tingting’s sister got married and had a child. Tingting treats her sister’s daughter like a real child. It was great to see the picture of their family. I often see them come home to visit their elders over the holidays and New Year. I also admire Tingting’s parents for not being affected by Dink’s “gossip”. You should know that ignoring “gossip” really takes courage and broad thinking.

It wasn’t until this year’s Spring Festival that Tingting’s mother and my mother knew Tingting and her husband didn’t often return to her in -law’s house. The reason was that her husband’s family wanted them to have children, but Tingting did not have children. When she was young, she only entered society when she was eighteen or nineteen. Worked, fell in love and got pregnant. At that time, I was young and had not discussed with my parents about pregnancy. She went to a small clinic with her boyfriend to have an abortion in the third trimester of pregnancy. Her second pregnancy was “ectopic” she underwent surgery and removed half of the uterus. Then, can no longer give birth. Coming home having to recover half a year after the operation, her parents found out that Tingting also had a psychological scar and returned to normal life under the guidance of her parents. Her husband at that time failed to have until the very end. Now, her husband has something to hide in their family, so the Tingting do not return to their home. Tingting still wants to have her own child.

Tingting missed her last chance to be a mother. I sincerely want to say that abortion is not the solution to the problem. The harm of abortion is hidden in the body, and no one knows if it is the latter. If you don’t think twice, you’ll regret it in the end. Childbirth is a major life event; we have to face and perform it well from the beginning.

— Fans of Love Life Association