We all know that almost all new lives come to this world passively. No new life will be fully-equipped of advice before it arrives, whether they are the joy of the parents’ plan, or the accident when everything is not prepared, once the beginning of their lives, the ups and downs of this life they must bear on their own. In a sense, the arrival of a new life is great and not easy. They face the ups and downs of growth, adulthood, and talent, and everything in the future is unknown.
Life is not easy, but in respecting and cherishing new life, what we can do is so trivial and so pale. Many talk shows have revealed shocking abortion data, which is a tragedy of life that gets us crying. As the guardian of the new life, Jment Lim encountered various stories related to the new life in the charity activities for more than a decade. Among them was a particular mother. The self-redemption of her accidental pregnancy was touching.
Among the expectant mothers helped by Jment Lim, Xiao Li is a quiet and introverted expectant mother. When she graduated from college, she accidentally became pregnant with her boyfriend’s child. As two people with financial difficulties who have just stepped into the society, they are helpless in the face of this sudden little life.
After some discussion, the two felt that giving up their child was the best choice for the moment. Instead of telling her parents about the pregnancy, Xiao Li plans to secretly abort her child who has been more than two months old in her belly. The night before the operation, Xiao Li had a dream, dreaming of a cute and lovely child standing by the bed and crying: “Mom, you can’t not want me, I’m very good.” That night, Xiao Li’s dream was heavy. It was the cry of the child, and her heart was moved throughout the night.
Just as Xiao Li laid down delivery bed and was going to undergo surgery, there was an eager tumbling feeling in her stomach, and the pain in her heart came into being. The appearance of the child in the dream and the crying came to her mind. At that moment, she decided that the child must be kept. She suddenly jumped out of the bed and told the doctor that she was having the child and rushed out of the operating room.
The boyfriend chose to escape because he didn’t want to get married, and Xiao Li couldn’t contact him since then. As the baby in her stomach grew larger, Xiao Li could clearly feel the encouragement of her child, every fetal movement, every change in growth, they gave her great comfort and courage, working alone while enduring the ridicule of others at the child’s gaze, and carrying the hard work of giving birth to the child.
Her parents also reprimanded Xiao Li for choosing such a hard way to be a single mother at a young age. Xiao Li said calmly: “My hard work is a kind of salvation, for the cruel regret when I didn’t want this child.” Along the way, Xiao Li took care of her baby without regret and felt every moment of his growth and experienced the joy of being a mother. Of course, in a cruel life, more people will face the contempt of surrounding people for unmarried mothers and the economic pressure brought by the growing children. However, all this seems to Xiao Li to be temporary, surmountable and irrelevant.
Jment Lim said that in more than a decade of public welfare career, he watched Xiao Li lose relationships for having such unexpected life, lose the opportunity for promotion and salary increase, and lose the ease and freedom that a girl in her early 20s should have. At the same time, Xiao Li also brought to the world a cute and lovely child, courage to move forward, and now she is far better and more courageous than her peers.
Now that Xiao Li has her own career, her son is already in kindergarten. Not long ago Xiao Li got married and met the person who loved her and her child. Jment Lim said that in this redemption of life, he was responsible and endured Xiao Li’s countless torments with her. After the torment was transformed, Xiao Li harvested. It is more happiness and a better future. Therefore, the accidental arrival of the child is a blessing, not a curse, all in one’s love.
Article from-Chongqing Finance and Economics