Parents and children are a fate of longevity. The billions of people in the world, but I have become your parents, you have become my children, so the probability of a few billions, probably is harder than any lottery.
In theory, parents are your only parents, but you are not the only child of your parents. They can have many choices, but you have only one chance to be born.
Many people keep complaining about their parents, but they forget one thing, that is why he can still complain, first of all because he lives in this world. No matter how much you don’t want to admit, this is the truth. Now, the reason why you can sit here and read this article carefully is a bit tacky. First of all, you have to thank your parents.
It’s not easy, the moment your parents decide whether to keep you. Because of the hardships of life, no matter the material and the spirit, the pressure and trials they face are no less than you are now. It’s just that their generation may be simpler, and considering the problem will not be too complicated, so they chose you.
People are passed down from generation to generation. Without inheritance, it will be broken. Whatever the reason, when the parents choose you, it means the continuation of the blood and the blessing of responsibility. You are here by grace.
My parents are ordinary people, doing ordinary jobs, earning only enough food and clothing, there is no greater ideal in life, just ask for food, clothing, and a family. In 1982, when I was born, national family planning was being fully rolled out, advocating eugenics and eugenics. Unfortunately, I still have an elder brother. It stands to reason that I should be “handled”. However, my parents have pity on me, after all, they have no patience. Fortunately, the month I was born was just one month before family planning was written into the Constitution, otherwise I would be considered a “national law intolerant” person.
I once asked my parents. At that time decided to keep me. Wasn’t you worried about being troubled by the police station? Don’t you worry about the overpopulation? In addition, your living conditions were not good at that time.
My parents looked at me strangely and said, “My child is not a cat or a dog, so I have to keep it no matter how hard is it.” In a word, my eyes were red. The grace of parents is as heavy as a mountain. They still chose me in their difficult life, and now, I will choose my children. This is the continuation of the blood, and it is also the return of affection.
It took only 40 years from my birth to the present, but the country has changed dramatically. This change made us feel happy, but also felt great pressure.
I remember when I was a kid, my parents took me to the movies, a ticket was 5 yuan; I bought a bowl of spicy bean sprouts at the door of the theater to eat, 5 cents; after going home after watching the movie, I bought another 5 cents popsicles , That sense of happiness burst out. But now, the cost of raising a child has doubled.
Because of the pressure of life, many young people are now reluctant to get married and have children. Everyone feels that even if they are almost unable to support themselves, how can they still raise children? For this reason, countless unexpected children have lost the opportunity to see the world. Sad and helpless.
If it were me, I would choose my child firmly. As old people often say, how easy is life? Who doesn’t have to walk through the whole life while dragging his family? The road was hard at first, but will be better later. It is very pitiful to walk alone.
In the end, we can’t fight with time. When you do the right thing at the right time, the chance of regret is smaller. My parents have never regretted choosing me. Although they have suffered a lot in order to raise me, family comfort makes them feel that everything is worthwhile. Now I am the same, even if there are so many obstacles, when I have a child, I will not hesitate to choose him.
The fate of parents and children is a lifetime, but since there is such a fate, it should not be let down.
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