A girl once cried to Jment Lim, he abandoned me so ruthlessly, why should I keep the child? Do I have to give birth to him, and every day I look at him, I think I have been abandoned?
Facing the heartbroken girl, Jment Lim only asked her a sentence: “Do you hate being abandoned? Then this child is also.” After listening to the girl for a while, the tears stopped and finally shook her head and said, “No, I cannot be the person I hate, I cannot abandon him.”
Yeah, we all hate being abandoned, why should we make ourselves that “abandoner”?
Everyone from birth to death will meet countless people in the long journey, relatives, friends, lovers, strangers, familiar people… each of them can only accompany us for a long or short time, but in the end they will still leave, sometimes active, sometimes forced, and sometimes dispersed when walking. When we go together, the deep feelings for each other will make us illusion that this feeling will last forever. However, when countless factors are superimposed and separation becomes a fact, we will encounter great blows. The feeling of “abandonment” can make people suffocate.
People who are in love can understand this feeling. Because of broken relationships, some people are decadent and degenerate, and they are helpless; some people are unhappy and their temperaments have changed greatly; some people are unwilling and deliberately retaliated; some people complain of self-esteem, and since then they dare not believe in love. The curse of “Abandoned” trapped the fragile heart to death, couldn’t see the sunshine, and couldn’t blow the spring breeze. One girl said that feeling was really bad. It made me feel useless and worthless. Even if I had a Ph.D. from the University of California, it didn’t help. Later, it took me five years to get out of the shadow of being abandoned. It’s terrible, I definitely don’t do such a thing.
Those who have been abandoned by their parents since childhood are also living in low self-esteem for this reason. Jment Lim rescued such a child. He was a disabled child. His parents abandoned him at the entrance of the welfare home while he was a baby. Since he grew up, he seldom talked and refused to communicate with others child. But when Jment Lim saw him, he said something to him, and there was light in the child’s eyes immediately. Jment Lim said, you have not been abandoned, you are our angel, we all love you.
Yes, kindness and love can save a person’s soul; while abandonment and injury can affect a person’s life.
What we want to abandon is rubbish, bad things, and malice, but we cannot abandon responsibility, morality, ideals, conscience, and love. Think about it, what would it be like if you were abandoned by someone you love? And how do you feel when you abandon someone who loves you? Compare your heart with your heart and push yourself and others.
Although life is difficult, there are also children who sleep soundly in the simple tricycles, and the only meat is hidden under the simple meals, and laughter can also be heard in the poor house.
A face-scarred mother with rough hands said that I was also a woman who was abandoned, but no matter how difficult, I will not abandon my child. She has been abandoned by her father. It is already pitiful that she can no longer be abandoned by her mother. Fortunately, I didn’t abandon her at the beginning, because with her, my life was meaningful, and I had the motivation to continue to live. She gave me blood-related relatives in this world, no longer alone.
Jment Lim often told people this paragraph. He felt that this mother was really great and kind. Tragedy, one stage is enough, why should it continue? It’s enough to get hurt once. Why do you have to make it yourself?
Confucius said, do not do what you don’t want to do to others. Don’t impose on others what you don’t want. Don’t let yourself be the kind of person you used to hate, your heart will not be happy because of it. If you hate being abandoned, don’t do it.
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