“It’s better to let the flow take place when it comes to fertility”

“It’s better to let the flow take place when it comes to fertility”

There have been stories around me: Mr. Li’s family is single-passed for three generations, and the first child is a girl. Mr. Li and Mrs. Li were very anxious, and pinned their hope of inheriting the family on the second child. For this reason, the family did not spend less time, what is the secret recipe for giving birth, the time of pregnancy, etc., some of them did not use a lot, and the daughter-in-law was finally pregnant. And to be on the safe side, Mr. Li not only quietly found the sex of the fetus related to B-ultrasound, but also specially invited an obstetrics and gynecology expert to determine. The expert’s conclusion made Mr. Li’s family disappointed: the fetus is a girl. What made the family very sad was that after the abortion operation, it was discovered that the fetus was a boy. Do you think this can make people break down?

In fact, there are countless cases of this kind in reality, especially because of gender reasons. There are not a few miscarriages. They just want a boy, and many fetuses have lost their lives in this way. There are also reasons for miscarriage that people don’t know what to say: some are because they heard that the baby born that month is not well-destined; some are because the fortune-teller told her that the baby would defeat his parents…

What I want to say is, even if it is not for those poor fetuses, but for your own sake, please respect your life and do not have an abortion easily.

Because whether it is a surgical abortion or a medical abortion, the pregnancy has actually been aborted against the laws of nature, which will cause harm to the mother’s body. If the mother’s health is not properly rested and recuperated after the abortion, the mother’s health may be buried. Hidden dangers affect the health of a lifetime. In addition, although the fetus has not yet been born, it is still life after all. Abortion and miscarriage are harming life and killing. The impact of miscarriage on other aspects of the mother is sometimes not so prominent and obvious, but it does exist. Especially the mother psychologically, it is impossible not to be unaffected. After all, the fetus and the mother are connected by blood, a piece of meat falling from the mother. And this influence will naturally spread and transfer to thoughts and actions. Buddhism believes that killing is a sin, and it will be rewarded. Things in the world cannot escape the word “karma”, so it’s best to think clearly before doing it.

Finally, I want to tell you: It’s best to let the matter go with the flow, don’t be overly deliberate, and don’t kill because of it, so as not to have an adverse effect on yourself, you will regret it at the same time.

— Fans of Love Life Association