Facing the unexpected arrival of a new life, do you feel happy or panic? How would you choose? An expectant mother once asked Jment Lim for advice.
Obviously, the mother-to-be is not ready to meet the child and she feel hesitant. It turned out that this is a professional woman who is in a career ascendancy and sees too many precedents in the company to resign because of marriage and pregnancy. Her husband, who also competes in the workplace have the same thought as her. For the couple, this pregnancy was indeed an accident.
This expectant mother is very anxious because she can foresee what will happen if she chooses this child. You can only hide it for another 4 months. Once your belly showed pregnant obviously, the company’s management will definitely put you on aside and dismiss you in a nice way. Even if you are not dismiss, you will not be entrusted with a high responsibility task silently; during the time when she will eventually take maternity leave, many people who want to be promoted surely seize this rare opportunity. After the child is born, her time no longer belongs to herself. It is impossible to achieve the balance between career and family. When the child is so small, how can she leave him just to work hard?
Jment Lim fully understands her contradictory psychology, but he believes that in the face of unexpected pregnancy, courage is more important than panic.
The benevolent is invincible, the brave is fearless. The path of life will not be smooth, and God will always give you some “surprise” and some challenges from time to time. What if you have an obstacle like mountain in front of you that you need to face? The best solution is to face it and cross it. It may be difficult at the beginning, the mountain is high and dangerous, the road ahead is full of unknown fear, however, as long as you have the courage to take the first step, everything will not be as hard as you think.
Courage is a magic weapon for us to overcome everything. In many situation, the problem is not so serious, but our perceptions are deviated so that we cannot make right decision and correct judgments, resulting in psychological anxiety, fear, and panic, which scares ourselves even is not yet happening. You have to always believe that there are solutions to any problems or any situation except medical problems.
It is normal to have panic emotions when the arrival of a new life if the psychological thought is not ready. Jment Lim believes that we should awaken our inner strength and use courage to overcome panic instead of just feel panic and do nothing. What scares us the most is not the child but the uncertainty about future life. It is unfair to push everything to children who have not yet born.
As the old people said, girl are weak but mothers are strong. “Strong” means courage. Mothers can erupt unprecedentedly in order to protect their children. This includes the courage to face the uncertainty situation, the courage to overcome difficulties and the courage to laugh at life. The most fearful thing for a person to do is not lack of ability but lack of confidence. Without confidence, there is no strength, and confidence is built on courage.
Seeing more of the hardships of life, we often look forward and backward to avoid all possible risks. However, evasion is useless. You will not escape forever. Only when you are bravely greeted the test comes each time, you will become stronger and stronger. When a new life arrives and tests you, it is time for you to be a stronger people in life. The decision is not depends on the child or the life but yourself.
The narrow road along will meets the brave and wins. When we meet unexpectedly throughout the test of life, we must stabilize ourselves first and face it calmly, because everything is best arrangement and the new life is most beautiful gift which you will not be understand until you take it apart. Do your best to complete your role in life, you will get different rewards.
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