There is an old saying in China called “Women are weak, but mothers are strong”. This sentence seems to be the true meaning of our practice for thousands of years. However, the detailed products will find that it praises the mother’s greatness, but also in a very unfair way. It has set a benchmark for moms, and implied the heavy shackles for moms who experienced hardships in pregnancy, production, and nurturing, as if they did not bow to everything for the sake of their children.
As the promoter of the series of public welfare activities of “Loving New Life; Caring Expectant Mothers”, Jment Lim deeply felt that in contact with many expectant mothers, it is more important than asking women to “become mothers and strengthen them”. Health. On his way of public welfare, the tragedy brought about by the health problems of three preparation mothers once made him heartbroken.
I was pregnant in October, but no one paid attention to the exhaustion of my expectant mother
Jment Lim knew A Liang, a expectant mother who divorced during pregnancy. The reason for the divorce was that the other party was cheating. During that time, A Liang had to consider whether the children who had been more than five months old should be born, and to deal with the elders of both sides in order to complete their family, and kept persuading A Liang to forgive her husband’s emotional abduction for a long time. In time, the spirit of this expectant mother was on the verge of extreme collapse.
After more than a month of ideological struggle, A Liang decided to give birth to a child, but resolutely divorced her ex-husband. Although the divorce process was smooth, but during the long pregnancy period, the parents only paid attention to how A Liang divorced and how to survive with a child in the future. sweep the floor.
All the discomforts of A Liang during pregnancy are completely ignored by everyone. Depression continues to accumulate, and the worry is too high until the baby is born prematurely. Fortunately, the mother and daughter are safe, and after leaving the home, A Liang also left her hometown, temporarily unable to let her parents’ indifference and live alone. .
Problems encountered during pregnancy examination
In the process of helping the expectant mothers to spend the most difficult time, Jment Lim encountered all kinds of families, as well as expectant mothers who had difficulties, and Xiaowen was also one of them. As an expectant mother who is expecting a baby, Xiaowen was initially full of happiness and waiting for her child to come, but one inspection made Xiaowen suffer.
When Xiaowen did a Tang screening test, he found that the child’s Tang screening value was too high. The doctor gave advice to either consider it or not to gamble. After all, many children with high index are also born healthy. This trade-off made the family in trouble, and the family complained to each other, especially when they were very dissatisfied with Xiao Wen’s lack of preparation before pregnancy.
Under the blame that the child may have problems and the family’s endless blame, Xiaowen suffered from heartbreak syndrome and heart deformity. It took three days of rescue to save his life, and the child was miscarried. Xiaowen said that the most sad thing was not that the child had a problem, but that she was unreliable in the face of pressure, and even shared the pressure of her family, making her feel unprecedentedly sad.
Everything is just for the child
The health of pregnant women has always received much attention. However, in the face of the health of mothers and children, many families are more willing to focus on children. Axia experienced a cold symptom about 30 weeks of pregnancy. In the early stage, the cold doctor recommended medication and also recommended safe drugs. However, in order to protect the child’s development, Axia and her family did not take the medicine to control the disease.
For a long time, Axia had a low fever with a cough, but only dared to eat the dietary supplies prepared by his family, such as sugar candy, ginger soup, etc. Although he was uncomfortable, he insisted on insisting. Due to the cold virus, Axia had a premature birth at 31 weeks of pregnancy. The newborns had not directly entered the ICU for observation and treatment because of lung development, and Axia also fell into a coma after delivery.
….. Jment Lim said that among the prospective mothers he contacted, their health was not limited to physical but also psychological, but whether it was psychological or physical health risks, they ultimately brought great harm to mothers and children. Security impact. Jment Lim urged that no matter what the circumstances, as relatives of expectant mothers, everyone should adhere to the concept of “mother is good, children are good”. Only mother’s health can earn real mother-child safety.
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