No matter what situation you are facing now, how difficult the situation is, I hope you can cherish your child and don’t give up your child by yourself.

There is a 35-year-old girl in Hubei. Five years ago, she was urged and teased by family and friends to prepare for pregnancy with her husband. However, after five years of running around, he failed to get what he wanted. During the physical examination at that time, the doctor told her that her husband was okay, because she had uterine fibroids, which might affect fertility. It is recommended that she should be surgically removed before getting pregnant. It is understood that the risk of the operation is not high, and it is possible to have a normal childbirth six months to one year after the operation. For health, she bit her teeth and entered the operating room.

The operation was very successful. In order to be able to conceive as soon as possible, she began to seek a Chinese doctor to treat her body, but even so, a year later, there was no news in her stomach.

Reluctantly, she went to the hospital for an examination. The doctor said that this time it was an intrauterine adhesion problem. She and her husband went to the Changsha University Hospital for treatment. Later, the fallopian tube was blocked. The only reason was to pass the fallopian tube in Shanghai, Beijing, and Guangzhou. Sichuan went to four hospitals in four places, time flies, 5 years have passed. The child failed to get pregnant as expected.

In fact, there are many similar cases around her. Some sold their home in order to have a child, quit their stable job, sought medical consultation from a long distance, and spent tens of thousands of yuan in test tube fees, without blinking their brows. The seemingly crazy move seems so reasonable. And these are not the most desperate. Once the doctor nods and can heal, these infertile couples have a light that can be pursued even if they are vague. At a certain stage of life, this becomes the biggest part of the whole family’s life. hope.

But at the same time, the abortion rate of young unmarried women is on the rise. A set of data released by the Institute of Science and Technology of the National Population and Family Planning Commission in 2013 showed that there are as many as 13 million abortions in my country each year, of which more than half are women under the age of 25. The physical and psychological traumas suffered by many girls after miscarriage are irreparable. A miscarriage often becomes an indelible scar in their lives, which is really heartbreaking!

For children, some ask for nothing, while others choose to give up easily. In any case, I hope that every girl can think twice before making a choice, don’t let herself regret it, and don’t let herself be hurt.

— Fans of Love Life Association