When we were young, we wanted to grow up as soon as possible. As I’m getting older, I realized that even though I was more independent, I still had many choices to face. Standing at the crossroads of life, some people are cautious and calm, while others rarely think and do whatever they want. A kind person can live a dull but healthy life, and an aggressive person often hurts himself and others unintentionally. Therefore, as an adult with freedom of mind and body, you should learn to suppress your desires, because some things are too late by the time you experience them.
Xiuxiu, a post-90s girl, is a lively and happy child. She was still a student in 2008. She was beautiful, pure, and popular with her classmates at school, and many boys liked her. Maomao, a boy younger than Xiuxiu, is stylish. Maomao is a young face in society. The ignorant Zhong Mao Mao and Xiuxiu were attracted to each other and began to fall in love. At Christmas 2009, Mao Mao and Xiuxiu had sex in impulsiveness without taking any steps. Sweet words are uttered every day, Xiuxiu believes that Mao Mao is a man who can be together for a lifetime.
After the Spring Festival, Xiuxiu was unwell and suspected that she was pregnant. Xiuxiu began to panic. Maomao took Xiuxiu into a small outpatient clinic for examination. After examination, it was confirmed that Xiuxiu had been pregnant for 80 days! Xiuxiu had no choice but to take the abortion pill prescribed in the clinic.
Three days later, Xiuxiu walked into the small outpatient clinic accompanied by Maomao again. The doctor said after the examination that there was still debris in her uterus, and she needed an operation. Xiuxiu grabbed Maomao’s hand tightly and said, “Maomao, I’m scared!” The outpatient boss urged him, “It’s okay. It’s a minor operation. We’ve done it several times and it’s safe. Also, is there any pain in this surgery? No, it’s not painful at all to get. of anesthetic… Our doctor is competent. “Hearing this, Xiuxiu had to choose the painless one recommended by the outpatient clinic.
An hour before the operation ended, many doctors were satisfied with the operation they performed., Maomao’s heart was relieved and he quietly waiting for Xiuxiu to come out and go home together. However, the effect of the anesthetic passed, but Xiuxiu did not respond! The owner of the clinic immediately rushed Xiuxiu to the local No. 1 People’s Hospital for emergency treatment. The result of hospital diagnosis after abortion is hypoxic-ischemic encephalopathy, after cardiopulmonary resuscitation, secondary epilepsy. Xiuxiu was admitted to the intensive care unit the same day.
As her condition worsened, outpatient owner Fan Yunping notified the patient to inform Xiuxiu’s family members. Later on, Xiuxiu’s parents rushed to the hospital immediately. The hospital issued a critical illness notice, and Xiuxiu’s father tearfully signed the operation order. Since then, Xiuxiu can only rely on a ventilator to aid his breathing, and she became a withered vegetable. After knowing that Xiuxiu’s condition had turned into a withered vegetable, Mao Mao seemed to have disappeared like a bubble without a trace. Xiuxiu’s family asked the media to find Mao Mao’s parents. Because of lack of finances, Mao Mao’s parents rejected and did not accept it. What happened to them, ruined Xiuxiu’s life and a family has been broken and fallen.
Now more than a decade has passed and Xiuxiu is almost 30 years old. The bad things that happened that seemed like nightmares are being forgotten by people. Maybe Mao Mao was married and had children and lived happily ever after. But the rest of Xiuxiu’s life he could only use to pay for what he had done to herself.
I can still remember that some of my friends around me have similar experiences. She and her boyfriend are also high school lovers. From high school to university and then into society, they have separated and reunited many times in ten years. When the girl thinks of so many years of love, everything will do. Forbearance, until after the engagement, the boy’s carelessness in preparing for pregnancy completely broke the girl. In the past, boys cared for girls. This time the boy was very indifferent, close to violence. Because the girl had an abortion because of the boy’s during college, the boy’s attitude after the engagement made the girl even more disappointed, and she didn’t dare to imagine life after marriage. So, they broke up completely. She said: “The girl imagines love too beautifully, thinking that the person who agrees with her body is the best person in the world. In the end, only self-esteem and self-love can truly be happy.”
There are some experiences that we don’t need to look forward to in this life. It’s good to know what’s wrong, but it’s too late. Girl, you have to know that apart from your parents, you are the only one who loves you the most. Treat love more rationally and stop being so desperate.
— Fans of Love Life Association