My little thoughts about meeting two couples in life:
The couple with a stable relationship is in their early thirties. If you think you need to rush into pregnancy and have a child while you are young you will feel that your child is not important, or you do not know the value of the child, so they wear clothes alone, the world is small. They passed the time running with passionate love and appreciation and were more dependent on each other.
At this time, they saw the baby and it was very cute and they could not put it down. Stay with your child for a few hours to experience the child’s innocent world. At the same time, the couple also better understand each other’s feelings about their children. I think current love will make me a good parent. The joy and happiness that children give them are unmatched. So far, their perspective has changed. They feel that not having one child is a very sad life. An advanced pregnancy, childbirth, and pregnancy should be put in the plan.
At this time, I would like to say that most mothers are curious and patient with their children before they become pregnant, but what really accompanies this daily happiness after being a parent is also the pressure that presses you to grow and mature. A new life is not a momentary joy and curiosity, but a responsibility not to abandon it.
Another couple, together for a year, always have small conflicts. At the age of twenty-four or five, they are always relatively immature. When a girl talks about emotional problems in a group, group friends will tell her that this is nothing, she is still young, it is not that she is not a suitable person if she can’t get along, and tell her how to deal with various examples.
One day when the girl said she was pregnant, the group of friends were happy. Congratulations to her and teach her the precautions in the early pregnancy. At this time, everyone seemed to block all the unpleasantness and contradictions that she had with her boyfriend before, and would look forward to their new life because of the arrival of a new life. We began to treat her as a mother and tried to share how to overcome a series of problems in pregnancy and childbirth. She and her lover have also begun to learn to mature, take responsibility to face the problems in life, and evolve from being a child like all novice parents, and grow up with their children through bit-by-bit groping. This is probably new. The power of life.
Some people may feel that the relationship is unstable and give birth to a child a bit impulsive. Does a girl not consider her future life? In fact, children will not be the shackles of marriage, nor will they bind someone’s life, let alone a stumbling block to life! The child comes with love, because he loves him. Don’t let the new life evolve into an imaginary enemy in your heart. Water the guard with love, he will be the angel baby who walks into your life. The emergence of new life gives you the mission of your parents and learns to grow.
In general, childbirth is a major event in life and a growing experience for us. It’s like everything we drink from snacks and sleep to Lazarus really melts into our lives bit by bit, and it’s our parents who hold up the sky for us. The same is true when we have children. We must learn to take responsibility and support our children.
— Fans of Love Life Association