“If you have another chance, you must cherish this beautiful accident”

“If you have another chance, you must cherish this beautiful accident”

“Zhang Gong, you should hurry up and change this drawing today, and you will report it tomorrow.”

“Alright, got it.”

Zhang Jing struggled with the phone for a long time, but bit the bullet and answered the boss. Although the fingers had already typed a lot of evasive words, she deleted them all and only briefly replied to these four words. He frowned and touched his stomach, his sadness deepened.

She is a landscape designer. She joined this design institute after graduating from graduate school. She was also ambitious when she first joined and wanted to make some achievements. So, she and Lao Yuhuan were busy with their careers, without considering their children. But after a long time, the old people in the family are not happy anymore, clamoring for grandchildren every day. At first, the husband helped to prevaricate, because he firmly supported his wife’s career and felt that he should not deprive women of the right to play their professional value. The two stayed together for a year or two, and Zhang Jing’s career gradually improved. From the very beginning, the assistant engineer gradually became a middle-level engineer, and gradually became the backbone of the design institute. power.

Who knows that things have reversed, Zhang Jing’s father-in-law died of a heart attack, leaving only a lonely mother-in-law, who was in tears all day long? Every day, Zhang Jing was determined to give birth to a child, saying that otherwise I would be sorry for my wife and ancestors, and the incense did not continue. As a result, her husband’s initial support for Zhang Jing’s career became a little shaken, and she was persuaded from time to time to make her think more about her mother, which gradually made Zhang Jing feel more pressured.

In the end, Zhang Jing made a compromise and chose not to take contraceptives anymore, and everything went with the flow. The matter was put on hold, and the strong woman turned her head and immediately went to work. Coincidentally, when Zhang Jing was about to appraise a senior engineer and participated in the management competition, she found that she was a little bit tired recently, and her aunt was too late for a long time. At first, she felt that she was too stressed recently and didn’t care about it.

After a while, she felt that something was wrong. Under the persuasion of her best friend, she decided to go to the hospital for an examination.

“Congratulations, you are pregnant, and the baby is three months old. Pay attention to rest recently. Don’t be too tired. The fetus is not very stable.”

After listening to the doctor’s words, Zhang Jing was surprised and happy, but turned her head more worried. At this juncture, she doesn’t know if the baby’s coming is a good thing or a bad thing. She was worried about telling her husband not to tell her husband that she was pregnant. She received a message from her leader to keep her up with the progress of the project. The verbal expectation made her dare not take it lightly, for fear of missing this opportunity for promotion.

After hesitating for a long time, she decided to get rid of the child first. She comforted her child that there will be in the future. The chance of promotion is rare in a century. Fearing that her husband knew that she had secretly knocked the child off because of competition and did not agree, she chose not to tell her husband and only let her best friend accompany her.

After the child was knocked out, Zhang Jing began to be busy designing drawings again, and this abortion was forgotten by her. Gradually, she found that her energy was not as good as before, and her whole state was very weak, and her work efficiency was not as good as before. Several mistakes made one after another made her leader criticize her quite a bit, and she aborted her husband behind her back. Make her psychologically stressed too much.

Finally, she fell ill, “You did not pay attention to maintenance after the abortion, and your body was not fully rested, causing the originally fragile uterus to be injured again. It is estimated that it will be difficult for you to get pregnant in the future…” The doctor sighed. The husband next to him was surprised and angry.

Finally, under the instigation of their mother-in-law, the two chose to divorce. Zhang Jing also chose to quit this high-intensity job, and her life was all over the place. I always think of the incredible and extremely angry expression of my husband in the hospital when she learned that she was pregnant and aborted, of the frustration of her mother-in-law when she said she was a cold-blooded woman, and that the boss did not know the sacrifice she made. Her work is still harsh, remembering that she lost her own flesh and blood and her life hasn’t improved as well as she expected… Zhang Jing regrets it.

It is said that the birth of a baby is a beautiful accident, but for too many young parents who are unprepared, the blind choice of abortion will not only cause irreversible damage to the woman’s body, but also the chance of getting pregnant again when you want to become pregnant. It is harder to get harder, the uterus will become very fragile, and gynecological diseases will follow. For mothers, the psychological pressure caused by losing a baby is beyond the experience of others, and it will become a woman’s lifelong mental illness. The harm caused by abortion is far beyond your imagination, so no matter what the reason, cherish this hard-won little life, don’t blindly abort, for you and for him.

— Fans of Love Life Association