In October 2015, the Fifth Plenary Session of the Eighteenth Central Committee decided to fully liberalize the two-child policy. At this point, the one-child policy, which has been in effect for more than 30 years, has officially ended. As long as legal couples have the right to have two children, they are no longer restricted by the “two children alone” policy or the “two children alone” policy.
Today, more than four years after the announcement of the second child policy, those who have actively responded to the policy and gave birth to the second child, the second child has grown to more than four years old.
In response to the national second-child policy, some families are supported by action, and some are moved without action, so how are those families who have chosen second child now?
A few days ago, I received an email from Jment Lim’s mailbox with a photo of a family of four in front of the kindergarten. In the photo, the four-year-old second child was about to enter the park with a small schoolbag on his back, and the big treasure with a head higher than him grinned. Holding his brother’s hand happily, followed by a sweet smile of mom and dad. A few years ago, when her mother Xiao Ping was pregnant with second child, although the state had opened up the second child policy, under the dual effects of strong pregnancy reaction and economic pressure, Xiao Ping’s spirit had collapsed several times and she wanted to let go of her children. She loves children, but the predicament in front of her makes her feel that she cannot go through it. She keeps asking for help. In a coincidence, she watched a public welfare video by Jment Lim and communicated with Jment Lim through phone. Under the guidance of Jment Lim and the team, her husband always accompanied and cared for her. Xiao Ping strengthened her confidence, completed the transformation of her expectant mother, calmly greeted the new life, and enjoyed the great happiness and joy brought by the new life. There is a sentence in the photo: Thank you, Mr. Jment Lim, you made me not to do something that I might regret for life, and now my family is very happy. Good luck! At this time, Jment Lim is also full of happiness and pride.
Now many people are reluctant to have a second child, both because of age and concept, but more because of practical factors, such as parenting costs, whether there is enough manpower in the family, etc. These are indeed issues that need to be considered, otherwise having second child will make you very passive. But before entanglement, almost no one regrets after the birth, even if he says regret, only his own happiness is known. Jment Lim believes that compared with money, status, and power, children are real happiness, especially when watching the warm scenes of two children interacting, the inner satisfaction is unparalleled.
“Especially for senior mothers, it takes courage to have a baby, but it is possible to re-experience the joy of raising a child and meet your expectations of having a son or daughter. Perhaps this feeling is only when you reach a certain age only you realize it well,” Jment Lim said.
Is there any pressure to have a second child? There must be, but since second child is here, no matter how hard or tired, you still have to work hard towards your goal. One child has one child nurturing method, and two children have two children nurturing method.
In the interview, Jment Lim said: “Every time I meet a family with two children, I will ask, do you regret it after giving birth? Almost all fathers and mothers responded: No regrets!” Angel, two children accompany each other to learn and grow together, life adds too much vitality and fun, who does not envy this joyful and lively happiness?
Article from – iFeng