In 2013, a piece of news was troubling. A 17-year-old intern nurse asked a pregnant woman for help. After escorting her home, she was raped by the pregnant woman’s husband with a drug and thrown into the wilderness. The pretty young nurse die at the age of beginning to shine. The 17 years of hard parenting has been destroyed by livestock-like couples, leaving endless sorrow in the world.
Throughout 2013 to 2020, the children killed within seven years are as young as 1 or 2 years old, as large as 17 or 18 years old. Behind every piece of news, there is a kind and innocent kind soul who suffers in this world. Jment Lim said that whenever a similar report appeared in the news, his heart was heavy and painful, and the child’s kindness and innocence became the targets of the evil. Jment Lim called on parents to teach their children about the knowledge and how to protect themselves especially girls.
For a long time, Jment Lim found in the charity activity of “Loving New Life; Caring Expectant Mother” that the big reason why many expectant mothers want to give up their children is that the child’s arrival is entirely out of their ignorance, even the child’s arrival will become the biggest fetter of a girl’s life. Once the children born, they are faced with a transition from a girl to a mother. What they lose is the best yearning and planning for life.
Jment Lim said that in real life, there are not many girls who have suffered extreme cruelty because of kindness, but there are many girls who become mothers because of simplicity and ignorance. They have a longing for love, but they are eventually tortured by cruel reality. This is not fair to girls, but for parents, such a situation is worth reflecting on for parents.
Weakness in sex education is a dilemma faced by many girls, because without understanding the most basic physiological knowledge, or a half-knowledge, under the catalysis of love, with the encouragement of curiosity and expectation, another untimely life will be born quietly. The result of this rush is often unable to give birth to the fruits of happiness, and it is more about letting the expectant mothers who are still more troubled and choosing to give up their children in a panic.
It is important to educate children about knowledge, but teaching children how to protect themselves is more important than knowledge, because life can’t go backwards and rehearsal, only to do all risk control, let children judge the right and wrong in the sense of self-protection, and start self-protection mechanism can have a life without regrets. In the course of its continuous promotion of public welfare undertakings, Jment Lim is also gradually paying attention to the field of girl protection. Jment Lim said that if young children are established with a good sense of self-protection, the number of under-age mothers will decrease. The new life that comes will also decrease accordingly. With this virtuous cycle, more new life will be respected and protected.
The child is a blank piece of paper, the mother’s hard birth for 10 months, but most of the times, while we teach children to learn knowledge and etiquette but forget to teach them how to protect themselves. There is a certain difference between the knowledge of those books and the defensive knowledge that needs to be learned in order to survive in this society. To allow children to spend their lives safely, the correct guidance and education of parents is indispensable, especially in how to protect themselves.
In the process of analyzing the data of expectant mothers who have been helped by the team in recent years, Jment Lim found that in fact many accidental lives can be avoided. The lack of correct sex education knowledge is the key reason to accidental life. Jment Lim said that this public welfare activities allow more children can actively establish a sense of self-protection.
Article from – 广东之窗