Knowing that I was about to become a father, I was in a trance, as if dreaming. That emotion is difficult to describe in words, a little uneasy, a little unbelievable, and anxiety and panic are mixed with surprises and expectations. However, when I truly realized what this meant, happiness and joy flooded me like a flood.
I am going to be a father! I feel like the whole of me is floating in the soft clouds, and I wish the world knew this news. Everyday, I am thinking, how does my child look like? Is it a little more like dad or a little more like mom?
Sometimes I feel that time passes quickly, because happy time is always short; but sometimes I feel that time passes slowly, my baby, how come you haven’t come out yet.
The first time I accompanied my wife to the birth inspection, I finally saw him on the computer. The little ball had not grown hands and feet, but somehow, my inner softness was touched. In an instant, I had an urge to cry. It was at that moment that I truly realized that it was a fresh life, our children, and the continuation of the lives of me and the people I love.
The child grows up in his wife’s body day by day, his small tail is faded out, and his facial features, hands and feet grow, and he starts to move and kicks his mother’s stomach. Every time I accompanied my wife to check and saw the growth record of the little guy on the B-mode, I felt an unprecedented joy. But at the same time, as my wife became more and more tired and exhausted, my heartache and guilt grew day by day.
The sudden changes in hormone levels make her wife sensitive and fragile. The heavy pregnancy belly makes her take every step of the way. The morning sickness makes her almost unable to eat anything, but for the baby’s health, she strives to make herself eat and make herself happy. How much I want to share her pain, but there is no way, I can only give her more care and more considerate care. Although I cannot share her skin-cutting pain, I also want her to feel that I am her pillar, her dependence, and all the wind and rain outside, let me cover her.
I try to manage everything at home, learn all kinds of pregnancy, childbirth, baby-bearing knowledge, when the baby arrives, I cannot be panic, I want to become a mature and stable father. In just a few months, I felt that I had grown a lot and I was proud while being happy and content.
As the days pass by, the wife’s maternity period is approaching, and our mood becomes more and more excited and excited. On the day the child was born, I was outside the delivery room door, half excited with half worried, and wished to bear the pain of my wife.
What a long and torturous wait, one heart of mine, can’t settle down. Until I heard the child crying loudly, like a beam of light illuminating my world, giving me hope. When the doctor brought the mother and son to my front, I held my wife’s hand tightly and looked at the baby child, tears blurred my eyes.
At this moment, how happy I am, and my wife, has continued our future with life. We looked at the little life in our baby, happy and satisfied. Thank God for giving us this new life; also thank my wife for her hard work to bring this life to this world. The hope he gave us illuminated our entire world. Fortunately, we did not give up on him.
Article from – iFeng